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Author Archives: Michelle Myers
Race and I’m Running
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers “Yeah, it’s a race and I’m running, but somewhere along the lines I lost you— among the clueless browns, the clueless blacks, the clueless yellows— and what’s worse, the just-kickin-its, the just bought-into-its.” -I … Continue reading
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Making Peace with Santa
Note from Carmen: This post was originally meant to go up during the holidays. Christmas may be over, but Easter is on its way! So I’m posting this anyway, as I think Michelle’s thoughts are still relevant, funny and thought-provoking. … Continue reading
10 Do’s and Don’ts for transracially adoptive parents
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers Like everyone else who grew up in the 70′s and 80′s, I loved watching “Different Strokes.” Of course, I was enamored with the show mainly because of Gary Coleman and waited with anticipation every … Continue reading
When hospitals host family reunions: More about how racism destroys families
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers A month ago, my uncle tried to kill my aunt by shooting her in the head with a shotgun, and then he killed himself with it. It happened the day after I had emailed … Continue reading
How should parents supplement the watered-down history children learn at school?
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers As a parent with a school-aged child, I struggle with how much I should interfere with what she learns at school. For example, I dread when Thanksgiving comes around because I’m always certain that … Continue reading
To be a lost child
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers “. . . well, enough rage and helplessness, and your love turns to something else. . . . It turns to steaming piss.” -Mitchell Stephens in The Sweet Hereafter “I’m telling you this . … Continue reading
An examination of privilege. A question of responsibility.
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers
I know I haven’t been able to keep up with my posts as much as I’ve liked over the last month, but I’ve been reading recent posts with great interest. In particular, Dawn Friedman’s post calling out anti-racist white parents of white children struck a particular chord, as it did with many people. I also found Carmen’s post about recent comments Angelina Jolie made in an interview interesting, and though at least one person commented that he/she didn’t get “much of a racial connotation out of [Jolie’s] statement,” I would argue that Jolie makes two points: her second statement about Shiloh being a “blob” may be about the differences between adopted children and biological children—but Shiloh’s blobbiness won’t last too long, so this isn’t even a critical point. Her first statement, however, is very revealing and implicitly has a racial context. Continue reading
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Columnist Intro: Michelle
by Anti-Racist Parent Columnist Michelle Myers I guess at first glance, I would appear to be a good candidate as a contributor for the Anti-Racist Parent: I’m a biracial woman (mother is Korean, father is white) who is married to … Continue reading
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Tagged Asian, african american, asian american, biracial, black, columnist intro, interracial-relationships, mixed-race, multiracial, parenting, white
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