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Dear LIE,

I’ve been collecting kids books with a wide variety of multicultural and anti-racist messages for years (both for my own son and for a class I teach to undergraduates that struggles with the question of how we should teach kids about race). I have found lots of great books documenting struggles for racial justice (among other themes). There are still a lot of gaps in my collection though.

One in particular seems particularly relevant now as my 9 year old white son said to me recently, “people whose ancestors came from Europe did a lot of really bad things. So we’re really bad. Does that mean I’m bad?” We had a wonderful conversation addressing this comment. But it made clear how few images of anti-racist whites the kids books in my collection had. So I’m wondering if anyone has a recommendation for kids’ books that show whites working as allies against racism alongside people of color (in any historical period).

Thanks,
Jennifer

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Open thread

What is on your mind this week? Let us know!

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Cute Kid Pic–Or Not?

So, it used to be that we were deluged with images. We easily had a 6 month stockpile of cute kids to post on the site. But lately, the well’s gone dry. Even ridiculous photos of me dressed as batman have failed to inspire you. (The sacrifices I make…)

The weekly cute kid post is a tradition I hate to give up, but perhaps the time has come? Tell me what you think and/or send a pic to team@loveisntenough.com. In the mean time, I have no choice but to fill the space with photos like this:

Now seriously, wouldn’t you rather look at a cute kid?

UPDATE: Thanks for the response and keep them coming! I’m happy to say that the Cute Kid Pic will remain a regular feature here at LIE.

A few things:
-repeat submissions are fine; just indicate as such in your email in case we get truly deluged with photos
-if you don’t get an email from me (Julia) within 24-48 hours after sending the photo, we didn’t receive or went to spam or something. Try again or send an email without picture advising us of the problem.

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Gendering food: Kids deserve more than these sexist stereotypes

Written by LIE contributor Margot Magowan; originally published at Reel Girl

When I started Reel Girl my plan was to blog about the sexist stereotypes marketed to kids through movies, TV, and toys. I never considered blogging about sexism in food.

I got this photo from Melissa Wardy at Pigtail Pals. A friend of hers took it in Las Vegas.

Can the gendering of products get any more stupid?

Seriously?

In the future, people are going to look back on 2012 and try hard to understand how intelligent human beings could ever be so deranged.

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LIE Links: Trayvon Martin Special Edition, Part 3

Democracy Now! has released a series of interviews reflecting on the Trayvon Martin case:

-Natalie Jackson, an attorney for Trayvon Martin’s family, discusses the witness testimonies and the statements of George Zimmerman’s family. “Clearly, they are trying to protect their family member,” Jackson says of interviews Zimmerman’s relatives have given to the media. “I guess they have a right to do that. But the problem is, they don’t have a right to destroy Trayvon’s memory in the process.”

http://www.democracynow.org/2012/3/30/trayvon_martin_family_attorney_on_mounting

-Cynthia Dagnal-Myron, a writer who was taught by the mother of the civil rights martyr Emmett Till, talks about her reaction to Trayvon’s case and her recent article for Salon.com, “For Trayvon and Emmett: My ‘Walking While Black’ stories.”

http://www.democracynow.org/2012/3/30/walking_while_black_killing_of_trayvon

-Alice Walker, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author, poet and activist talks about the death of Trayvon Martin and how killing is a symptom of unaddressed racism. “[Trayvon Martin] was ours,” she says. “And I don’t just mean black people, but all of ours. These children are our future and they have to be protected.”

http://www.democracynow.org/2012/3/30/trayvon_martin_was_ours_author_alice

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Today at 9 am ET: Images in River–Black Girls Dialogue

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The panelists for tomorrow’s live discussion are seriously awesome!

You’ve got Images in the River: Black Girls Dialogue on your calendar right? Love Isn’t Enough and a few of our crunk feminist friends are getting together at 9 am ET, TOMORROW, right here in this space, to discuss how to introduce feminism to black girls. I’m telling you, you don’t want to miss this. Here are just three of the amazing women that will be a part of this panel:

Love Isn’t Enough contributor Bianca I. Laureano is a first generation Puerto Rican sexologist living in NYC. Raised in the Washington, DC area in an activist environment, Bianca is the daughter of an artist and educator and a product of the public school system. In the field of sexuality for over a decade, Bianca has worked with and taught youth of Color, working class communities, speaks at national and international organizations advocating sex-positive social justice agendas. She has presented both locally and internationally on various topics concerning activism, Latino sexual health, feminisms, youth and hip-hop culture, Latinos and race, Caribbean cultural practices and sexuality, dating and relationships, curriculum development, reproductive justice and teaching.

She’s a board member at the Black Girl Project, doula with The Doula Project, editor of film and music at VivirLatino.com, and co-founder of The LatiNegr@s Project. Bianca is an instructor and a freelance writer and was awarded the 2010 Mujeres Destacadas’ Award (distinguished woman) from El Diario/La Prensa for her work in sexual health. She hosts the website LatinoSexuality.com and identifies as a LatiNegra, media maker, radical woman of Color, activist, sex-positive, pro-choice femme. Find out more about Bianca by visiting her website BiancaLaureano.com.

Sheri Davis-Faulkner is a doctoral candidate in American Studies in the Graduate Institute of the Liberal Arts at Emory University.  Her work calls for a humanities-based intervention and response to health issues articulated within social science and popular medical discourses. Specifically she looks at the depiction of the “childhood obesity epidemic” within televisual media, attending to the treatment of black girls categorized as obese.  A Spelman College alumna, she completed her Master of Women’s Studies degree in May 2001 from The Ohio State University.  In 2010 she conducted a participatory action research project in West Atlanta called Camp Carrot Seed, an action oriented research project focused on engaged-pedagogies that explore food literacy, body literacy, and media literacy with youth through organic gardening, shopping, food preparation, arts and literary enrichment, environmental education, and community building. In addition to being a blogging member of the Crunk Feminist Collective, she is also a proud spouse and mother living in the Atlanta metropolitan area.
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Open Thread

Hello all! Apologies for the slow posting week here at LIE. We have been gearing up for the event this Saturday, Images in the River, about teaching black girls about gender bias and equality and helping their voices to be heard. We hope you’ll join us! You can register for an email reminder below.

Now, back to our regularly scheduled open thread: please feel free to talk about anything that’s on your mind.

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MARCH 31–THIS SATURDAY!!–Images in the River–Black Girls Dialogue

On Saturday, we tried to open the doors. In a small period of time, girls went from spouting Moynihanisms to writing messages of encouragement to Amber Cole as members of her “crew.” Many of the girls sounded like our mothers. They said things like, “We are all fully human, no matter our skin color” and “It’s okay to have a voice” and “You think I ain’t smart because of the way I talk, but I AM” and “I only have a mother and I am VERY loved.” One girl had a daughter named Beautiful, and I believe that says it all.

In November 2011, Sheri Davis-Faulkner, Mashadi Matabane, Chanel Craft and Asha French introduced 10 black teenage girls to feminism, as part of the National Women’s Studies Association conference. They recounted the experience in a post on Crunk Feminist Collective.

Call it feminism. Call it womanism. Call it gender politics. One thing is certain–it is imperative that black girls and young women understand the societal and institutional forces aligned to diminish them. Not just because of Too Short or Amber Cole or Very Smart Brothas, but because, quite simply, black girls are awesome and, to borrow from sister Whitney (RIP), they are the future. And we love them.

So how do we do this? How do we teach black girls about gender bias and equality? More importantly, how do we let them be heard on the issues that most effect them? Here’s a start:

Join us for a live panel discussion, Images in the River: Black Girl Dialogues, at 9 am ET, Saturday, March 31, featuring Sheri Davis-Faulkner, member of the Crunk Feminist Collective; American Studies doctoral candidate, Mashadi Matabane; Bianca Laureano, founder of the LatiNegr@s Project, who has worked with and taught youth of color and speaks at national and international organizations advocating sex-positive social justice agendas; and Asha French, to discuss planning, funding and facilitating feminism 101 discussions for black girls. The conversation can be accessed on Love Isn’t Enough, Crunk Feminist Collective, What Tami Said and Cover It Live.

This is not just a conversation, but a call to action. Following the panel discussion, we encourage participants to host their own workshops with black girls and we invite you to share the process and outcomes on Love Isn’t Enough so that others may learn from your efforts. (Details to come.) Tweet using the hashtag: #blackgirlsdialogue.

This effort may be focused on black girls, but appreciate the beauty and possibility in all girls. Everyone is welcome to contribute and learn from this conversation.

JOIN US and please help spread the word about this upcoming event.

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Open Thread

Please share whatever is on your mind.

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NAACP’s Ben Jealous on Trayvon Martin

via Democracy Now

Other Democracy Now coverage is here.

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LIE Links: Taking Action Re: Trayvon Martin

[Editor's note: Please feel free to add additional calls to action in the comments.]

Move On’s Petition to Florida Attorney General Pam Bondi and U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder

George Zimmerman’s shooting of Trayvon Martin, an African American teenager, reveals a history of racism in Sanford, Florida,that has stubbornly refused to die. Weeks after the shooting, the Sanford police department is slow to release details ofthe shooting and, more surprisingly, has not arrested George Zimmerman, a man who has a history of violence.

We urge you to sign this petition to protect private citizens from gun violence and inept law enforcement. Florida’s Attorney General Pam Bondi must step in and provide justice for Trayvon Martin, his family, and the community.

Color of Change Petition

Just minutes before Trayvon was killed, Zimmerman had called police stating that Trayvon looked “suspicious.” Trayvon was unarmed and walking back to his father’s home in Sanford, Florida when Zimmerman accosted him.

At the crime scene, Sanford police botched their questioning of Zimmerman, refused to take the full statements of witnesses, and pressured neighbors to side with the shooter’s claim of self-defense. As it turns out, Sanford’s police department has a history of failing to hold perpetrators accountable for violent acts against Black victims, and the police misconduct in Trayvon’s case exemplifies the department’s systemic mishandling of such investigations. And now, the State Attorney’s office has rubber-stamped the Sanford police’s non-investigation, claiming that there is not enough evidence to support even a manslaughter conviction.

Trayvon’s family and hundreds of thousands of people around the country are demanding justice.  Please join us in calling on the  Department of Justice to take over the case, arrest Trayvon’s killer, and launch an independent investigation into the Sanford police department’s unwillingness to protect Trayvon’s civil rights.

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Million Hoodies March for Trayvon Martin

If you are in NYC, I envy you. I hope you will turn out in your hoodie at Union Square tonight. If you’re not in NYC, do not despair. Organizers ask you to take a photo of yourself in your hoodie, and share your photo here. Organizers are planning to use the photos to create some kind of tribute for Martin’s parents.

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LIE Links: Special Trayvon Martin Edition, Part 2

Voices: Justice for Trayvon Martin [Racialicious]

And now, the waiting begins. Again.

Once again, a young person of color is dead, and hundreds of thousands of people are hoping for justice to be served. Less than a year ago, it was Troy Davis. This week, it’s Trayvon Martin, the 17-year-old Florida boy shot and killed by George Zimmerman, who remains free after authorities were criticized for allegedly protecting Zimmerman, a neighborhood watch aptain.

Tuesday night, the U.S. Justice Department announced it would investigate the slaying of Martin. And, especially in light of what we’ve learned about not only Zimmerman, but the social climate around him that enabled him to not only feel justified in an abhorrent sense of paranoia toward young black men, but to continue walking the streets after bringing about the worst possible outcome of that entitlement, the question comes to mind again: Will they get it right this time?

The Love of Black Mothers and the Care of Black Children [Crunk Feminist Collective]

“Let’s face it. I am a marked woman, but not everybody knows my name.”[3] Thus begins Hortense Spillers’s fascinating “Mama’s Baby, Papa’s Maybe: An American Grammar Book,” focusing on the very specific, very particular material conditions of black people since historic passages through mediums and middles on bateaus, ketches and skiffs, named with conventions such as Jesus, or the Nina, Pinta, and the Santa Maria. Spillers prophesied the telling of Trayvon Martin’s murder to his parents: an unmarked, unnamed body, Trayvon’s father, Tracey Martin, “thought that he was missing, according to the family’s lawyer, Benjamin Crump, but the boy’s body had actually been taken to the medical examiner’s office and listed as a John Doe” for a day.[4] Spillers’s being marked converges here with Trayvon’s being discovered, the normativity of the conflating of blackness and anonymity, enunciated and rehearsed by some people not knowing a name, by some people not giving a damn. It is important to note – as a sign of irrepressible, irresistible life – that Spillers says “not everybody” because if she is unknown, and if Trayvon is John Doe, this is limited and not absolute, no matter how pessimistic we may become.

Being marked, being discovered. What we have here is an ontological set of concerns. What when your marking is the point of your discovering; what when the thing that you constantly manifest is the thing that constantly must be found elsewhere? The manifestation of Trayvon’s being marked by George Zimmerman occurred through the refusal to be earnest. Rather, Trayvon appeared as “a real suspicion guy,” Zimmerman’s was a gaze attesting the idea that Trayvon was “up to no good” and that he seemed to be “on drugs or something.” Though raining and night time, in Zimmerman’s mind donning a hood was nothing more than an accouterment to such criminal behavior, grounded in the fact of Trayvon’s presence: “he looks black.” Literally walking down the street looking around, basic behavior in which many of us participate daily, was criminally suspect to Zimmerman, enough so that he called 911, registered a complaint, trailed Trayvon in a car, got out the car, confronted Trayvon, scuffle ensued, ending in two shots: one in the air, one in Trayvon’s chest.

There appears to be a conspiratorial nature to the Sanford Police Department’s engagement with this particular case. No longer, even no longer primarily, is this operative at the level of the individual and interpersonal, and thus, Zimmerman’s claim for “self-defense.” The institutional practices of justice are being obscured and obstructed from even an initial movement into the search for justice. The PD at best appears to be at best misinformed, at worst lying, about what occurred, when it occurred, who said what, and how they said it. The PD is covering up the fact of Zimmerman’s past in favor of saying that he had a “squeaky clean record.” The PD is not even willing to arrest because they feel they have no “grounds” upon which to act, though their inaction is justified only by their refusal to be earnest, to be truthful.

Justice Department Civil Rights Division and FBI Will Investigate Trayvon Martin Killing [Shakesville]

Meanwhile, the media coverage continues to be ridiculous. Check out, for instance, the way the Miami Herald reports on this new development (emphasis mine):

The U.S. Department of Justice’s Civil Rights Division and the FBI will investigate the killing of Miami Gardens teenager Trayvon Martin by a neighborhood watch volunteer, the department announced late Monday.

The announcement coincided with a statement from Florida Gov. Rick Scott asking the Florida Department of Law Enforcement to offer “appropriate resources” in the case.

The federal and state agencies are intervening in what attorneys call a botched investigation into the killing of the Michael Krop Senior High School student, who was killed Feb. 26 in Sanford, a town of 55,000 just north of Orlando. Trayvon, 17, on suspension from school, was staying at his father’s girlfriend’s house when he walked to a nearby a 7-Eleven store to buy candy and iced tea.

So, the shooter is a fine, upstanding neighborhood watch volunteer, and the victim is a troublemaker on suspension from school. Perfect.

But! If you’re one of those people who thinks that George Zimmerman, who identifies as white and Hispanic, may have acted rashly because of racism, that is a conversation there’s no need to have because, if there’s anything wrong with George Zimmerman, it’s not that he’s a product of a racist culture in which young black men are routinely demonized as dangerous thugs and in which non-black men obsessed with black criminality in states with lax gun laws are not seen as a grave threat to the black people in their communities, indicative of multiple institutional problems that make incidents like this one inevitable (and not totally uncommon); it’s that George Zimmerman exists in a fucking void and no one else has any responsibility and he’s CRAZY:

George Zimmerman, 28, a neighborhood watch volunteer with a long history of calling in everything from open garage doors to “suspicious characters,” called police to say he had spotted someone who looked drugged, was walking too slowly in the rain, and appeared to be looking at people’s houses. Zimmerman sounded alarmed because the stranger had his hand in his waistband and held something in his other hand.

No matter how many times shit like this happens, it’s never publicly discussed as a sickness in our endemically racist culture; it’s always about how the individual perpetrator, if found to be culpable at all, is mentally ill, unstable, reckless, personally weak and profoundly broken.

White People, You Will Never Look Suspicious Like Trayvon Martin [GlobalGrind]

I will never look suspicious to you. Even if I have a black hoodie, a pair of jeans and white sneakers on…in fact, that is what I wore yesterday…I still will never look suspicious. No matter how much the hoodie covers my face or how baggie my jeans are, I will never look out of place to you. I will never watch a taxi cab pass me by to pick someone else up. I will never witness someone clutch their purse tightly against their body as they walk by me. I won’t have to worry about a police car following me for two miles, so they can “run my plates.” I will never have to pay before I eat. And I certainly will never get “stopped and frisked.” I will never look suspicious to you, because of one thing and one thing only. The color of my skin. I am white.

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Racists=Bad People?

Written by Love Isn’t Enough Guest Contributor Anne Sibley O’Brien; Originally published at Coloring Between the Lines

Recently I’ve been collecting nonfiction children’s books (mostly from the 1990′s, mostly library discards) addressing racism, including these titles: What Do We Think About Racism?; Talking About Racism; Let’s Talk About Racism; What Do You Know About Racism; and How Do I Feel About Dealing with Racism.

As a group, the books have some useful information, but most define racism as a confusing umbrella term that includes prejudice based on ethnicity, culture, religion and nationality as well as race.

But the biggest drawback shared by all the books is limiting the discussion of racism to overt, personal acts. The take-away message: Racism is something that bad people do.

Focusing only on individual racial bias overlooks the reality that racism is a system of advantage based on race. It fails to grapple with the ways in which all of us are socialized to play roles based on the racial group(s) we belong to. It doesn’t address institutional racism, white privilege, unconscious bias, or the influence of the dominant racial culture, all of which are far more pervasive than individual acts of personal racism.

And it implies that well-meaning, well-intentioned people aren’t likely to say or do something racist. This constricts our conversations because any suggestion that an action, attitude, or statement might show racial bias causes people, especially white people, to get extremely defensive, completely resistant, or deeply ashamed, because it’s heard as an accusation that the perpetrator must be a bad person.

Recently, social commentator Jay Smooth gave an engaging and illuminating TED talk at Hampshire College – “How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Learned to Love Talking About Race” – addressing the problem of people’s resistance to the idea that they might be showing racial bias.

Smooth advocates, with delightful humor, that we move from the “good person/bad person binary” to “the dental hygiene paradigm of race discourse.” He suggests that we equate a correction about race to the observation, “You have something stuck in your teeth.”

Over the years, I’ve found the direction of remembering my own goodness to be quite useful in processing any feedback that my bias might be showing. If I know that my intention is good, then I can appreciate the mirror showing me any dissonance, offering me the chance to clean it up so that the impact matches my intention. I can choose to see the intervention as a kindness and respond, “Thanks! I needed that.”

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Open Thread

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LIE Links

How to Kill a Child’s Critical Thinking [Native Son]

This past weekend an article was retweeted into my timeline and I was completely taken aback. Ever so often there comes a story that demands my attention due to its infelicitous, destitue nature. I have included a portion of the article below.

In a bold comparative analysis of The Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, Jada Williams, a 13-year old eighth grader at School #3 in Rochester, New York, asserted that in her experience, today’s education system is a modern-day version of slavery. According to the Fredrick Douglass Foundation of New York, the schools’ teachers and administrators were so offended by Williams’ essay that they began a campaign of harassmentkicking her out of class and trying to suspend her—that ultimately forced her parents to withdraw her from the school.

In her essay, which was written for a contest, Williams reflected on what Douglass heard his slave master, Mr. Auld, telling his wife after catching her teaching Douglass how to read. “If you teach that nigger (speaking of myself) how to read, there will be no keeping him,” Auld says. “It will forever unfit him to be a slave. He would at once become unmanageable, and of no value to his master.”

Williams wrote that overcrowded, poorly managed classrooms prevent real learning from happening and thus produces the same results as Mr. Auld’s outright ban. She wrote that her white teachers—the vast majority of Rochester students are black and Hispanic, but very few teachers are people of color—are in a “position of power to dictate what I can, cannot, and will learn, only desiring that I may get bored because of the inconsistency and the mismanagement of the classroom.” …. click here to read the article in full.

The thing that bothers me the most about the actions taken by the school district in which Jada attends is that the point of her essay is proven one hundred times over. Educators are charged with the task of making their students think critically and take some responsibility for their education. By trying to suspend Jada, they are consciously or subconsciously deploying a level of subjugation that has long been used to systematically emasculate any person of color who would outright question the status quo. In the 50s and 60s methods such as murder, imprisonment and forced exile were used. In this case the school board used a type of character assassination.

Illegal Immigrant Fights for Custody of Young Son [ABC News]

A custody battle between a Guatemalan mother who was arrested while in the U.S. illegally and the couple who adopted her son while she was in prison and raised him for most of his life is back in court today.

Guatemalan-born Encarnacion Bail Romero, who entered the U.S. illegally in 2006 while pregnant with her son and later gave birth, was in Missouri in May 2007 when Immigration and Customs Enforcement officers raided the poultry processing plant where she worked. Romero was arrested, along with about 100 other undocumented workers. Romero’s son, Carlos, was 7 months old at the time.

Bail Romero went to jail and a few months later Carlos was transferred to the custody of Melinda and Seth Moser of Carthage, Mo., who later officially adopted the boy and raised him as their own.

But after Bail Romero got out of prison in 2009, she said she took up a long battle to get her son back, even though she hasn’t seen the boy in more than four years.

Why the Abuse of Yumi Stynes Must Stop [MamaMia]

(From reader Megan, who gives a bit of context: ”Australia has a similar problem with racism as the US – as in, we all like to promote ourselves as tolerant and multicultural, but then something like this comes up, and the truth comes out.  I think at this stage, all anyone needs to know is that Yumi Stynes is an Australian TV host, born to a white Aussie dad, and a Japanese mother, who made a silly remark about a soldier on her TV program.)

I’ve seen this happen to so many women and Yumi Stynes is the latest one to experience it with revelations today the torrent of abuse and threats has become so extreme the police have been brought in. I’ve watched this firestorm rage around Yumi for almost a week with my hands over my eyes and a sick feeling in my stomach.

But enough. It’s time to speak out and say something about the way women in public life are attacked so viciously.

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LIE Links: Special Trayvon Martin Edition

Trayvon Martin: Sorry, the First Murder Is Free of Charge [Addicting Info]

Interestingly enough, the Sanford police saw no reason to arrest Zimmerman, who admitted he just gunned down an unarmed kid on the street walking home from a convenience store. Evidently Mr. Zimmerman is well-respected, has a background in criminal justice. Says Chief Lee,”It’s not like he went out there looking to shoot somebody.”

HELLOOOOO! He did shoot somebody.

According to the Huffington Post, Trayvon’s dad, Tracey Martin asked the police why Zimmerman hadn’t been arrested. He says the officers told him “they respected [Zimmerman's] background, that he studied criminal justice for four years and that he was squeaky clean.”

“My question to them was, did they run my child’s background check? They said yes. I asked them what they came up with, and they said nothing. So I asked if Zimmerman having a clean record, did that give him the right to shoot and kill an unarmed kid?”

Evidently so.

The police have questioned Zimmerman twice in the two weeks since Trayvon’s murder, but no charges have been filed. The most recent update from Chief Lee is that there is insufficient evidence to arrest Mr. Zimmerman. After all, he had a bloody nose and grass stains on his shirt.

Racism Killed Trayvon Martin [Raving Black Lunatic]

You may have heard the name already. If you haven’t, it’s the name of the latest victim of America’s racism. Because while it may have been Neighborhood Watch Commando George Zimmerman who shot and killed Martin as the boy walked back to his father’s Florida home, it was racism that was truly responsible. The racism that is so deeply embedded into the psyche of so many Americans that it makes it only smart for every black person to constantly keep their head on a swivel.

Martin died because black boys are suspicious. They are suspicious, they are dangerous, they are frightening, they are criminal, they are evil. That’s what racism teaches us. Black boys in a neighborhood with white people are a clear sign that something is wrong. Black boys deserve to be questioned, they deserve to be confronted and ultimately, they deserve to die.

If you don’t believe that, you haven’t been paying attention. You haven’t looked behind the thin veneer of proactive policing and “stop and frisk” to see the ugly truth. Just being black is probable cause. It is an indelible brand that marks you as a deviant. You have been identified, cataloged and eventually you will be put in your place. Trayvon Martin was put in his place for sure. He was killed on a sidewalk despite being unarmed, despite being in the neighborhood where his father lived, and despite having just as much right to American air as any other citizen. And the 25-year old man who shot and killed him in cold blood was set free by police.

Trayvon Martin’s Family Calls For Arrest Of Man Who Police Say Confessed To Shooting [HuffPost/BlackVoices]

Martin, 17, a high school junior who lived with his mother in Miami, was visiting his father and stepmother at their home in Sanford, a suburb of Orlando, on the weekend of Feb. 26. During halftime of the NBA All-Star Game, Martin’s family said he walked to a nearby convenience store to get some candy for his younger brother. On his way back home, according to reports, he caught the attention of George Zimmerman, a 26-year-old college student and self-appointed captain of The Retreat at Twin Lakes neighborhood watch.

Zimmerman, armed with a 9mm handgun, trailed the boy in his car. At some point, Zimmerman called 911, telling the operator there was a “suspicious person in the area,” according to a police report acquired by HuffPost.

Not long after the call, some sort of altercation ensued between Zimmerman and Martin. Then neighbors said they heard gunfire.

The Sanford Police arrived and found Martin lying face down on a patch of grass about 70 feet from his family’s home, a pack of candy in one pocket and an iced tea in the other.

Trayvon Martin Case Moves To State Attorney’s Office [WESH.com]
Attorney Natalie Jackson, who is representing Martin’s family, said Zimmerman, 25, should be arrested and charged with the 17-year-old’s death.

“In this case, Mr. Zimmerman has made the argument of self-defense,” Sanford Police Chief Bill Lee said. “We don’t have the grounds to arrest him.”

The family says they want justice.

“My son left Sanford, Fla., in a body bag,” said Martin’s father, Tracy Martin. “While George Zimmerman went home to to go to sleep in his own bed. It’s senseless and the police in Sanford, Fla., isn’t giving any answers and we actually feel that justice hasn’t been served and isn’t being served.”

Jackson said Martin was unarmed while walking back to his father’s home from a convenience store. He was carrying a bag with skittles and iced tea inside. When Zimmerman spotted him, he called 911 to report a “suspicious-looking” person.

According to the family’s attorney, Zimmerman then disregarded a 911 operator’s instructions not to approach the teen. Martin was shot and killed in the ensuing confrontation.

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The Invisibility (or Linvisibility) of Asian Americans

Written by Love Isn’t Enough Guest Contributor Jennifer; Originally published at Mixed Race America

My friend and colleague Tim Yu has a piece on CNN’s Opinion Page, “Will Jeremy Lin’s Success End Stereotypes?” It is a very smart and very thoughtful piece, and I hope you will all take a look at it. I had also been queried about the topic of racism and Asian Americans related to Jeremy Lin–although my piece didn’t get placed with CNN (honestly I think Tim’s piece is much better, so I’m glad it got picked over mine) I figured I’d share my own 800 word essay with everyone here. After all, the great thing about blogs is that you can have multiple voices chime in — and Jeremy Lin’s ascent in the NBA has touched on so many arenas of Asian American and critical race studies–it’s really been a wonderful 2 weeks!

Three weeks ago, before the world knew the name Jeremy Lin—before all of the punning word play (Linsperational, Linsational, Linbelievable) that pays homage to Lin’s incredible 7 game winning streak (and most recent win over NBA champions Dallas Mavericks), before the world could chant the basic details of this Linderella story—led his high school team to a state championship but wasn’t recruited in college, ended up at Harvard but wasn’t drafted immediately, eventually picked up by the Golden State Warriors but then let go and picked up by the Houston Rockets but then let go and then ended up at the Knicks , where he slept on the couches of his brother and teammate, but were it not for a series of tragedies and accidents among his teammates, he could have found himself without a contract, his NBA hoop dreams dashed—before Linsanity had swept the globe, my college classroom in North Carolina said that they had no idea that the the acronym F.O.B. (fresh-off-the-boat) was an offensive term directed, primarily, at Asian Americans.

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Open thread

It was good to hear some new voices here this week. Please, keep talking about whatever is on your mind this Thursday.

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